Jan
09

My Free Trade Agreement

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Paralyzing Intimidation

I recently received an e-mail that stated

I guess the bigger problem is that I’m paralyzingly intimidated when I feel like I’m talking to/working with someone who knows more than I do, because I’m afraid of being made to feel stupid when I don’t know everything they know, or have an idea that they already KNOW is the dumbest idea ever.

There are only a few people who I don’t have this problem with, namely you and [redacted], because you are both so patient and especially not condescending.

I think the key is to treat life like one big brainstorming opportunity.

My Free Trade Agreement

Most of life is spent trading thoughts and ideas. At some point you have thoughts and ideas that should be given to others.  At some point others have thoughts and ideas that you will find useful.

Each time you know something that someone else doesn’t or vice versa, it is an opportunity to trade.  An opportunity to trade is an opportunity to improve on each other’s ideas.  Trade freely.

Some Thoughts About Thoughts

  • Don’t form opinions until you have enough facts. In addition, when you receive facts, “trust, but verify“.
  • Don’t be embarrassed to ask questions about what you don’t know.  At some point everyone didn’t know what they now know.  The only way they found out was through asking questions.
  • When others don’t know something, “be patient and especially not condescending”. How will they find out if they don’t ask?  Just because I came across the facts first doesn’t mean you won’t understand the facts or even have a better application of those facts.
  • When you come across information that you think someone might find useful, pass it on. Even if they haven’t asked for it, they will probably find it interesting at least.  At most, it will help them form a better understanding of the subject.
  • Anyone can learn.  Wise people are willing to un-learn and re-learn. Keeping an open mind and re-evaluating facts, ideas and opinions on a regular basis are critical to being wise.

Those are my thoughts on thoughts.  Leave yours in the comments section near the title of this post.

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